Walter wrote:Those reactions on Dr. Nase are because of is attitude, not because he is questioning our products...
This is not specific to Walter or Dr. Nase's comments but something I have seen occurring on message boards and in e-mails lately. This latest incident has just reminded me of it. Walter and others have commented on Dr. Nase's tone/attitude in his recent comments about DS products, and I wonder where they are getting that reaction from because I'm not reading that same tone into the post. I have seen this happen several times where (not just here but at the RS group too) get upset over posts. Please be very careful about reading tone into print statements; you don't know what sort of tone the person meant when writing it. Obviously, the straight words are not something you can argue over, but some people seem to read things and see it as a personal attack (again, not specifically referring to Dr. Nase issue, though it is what reminded me of this issue). Again, it seems like several people are having emotional reactions to Dr. Nase's statements and I'm not sure why, because when I read them, I think, "Oh, that's interesting... Hmmm... don't agree with that... Well, that makes sense...". You know, I evaluate each piece of information and make separate judgements about that information, not the person relaying that information. I'm just not having a gut emotional reaction, and I wonder if it's because I'm attributing a different "tone" to his posts; I see him as not being antagonistic or a jerk but as a scientist who is presenting his opinion based on evidence in a fairly detached way (now, you can argue all day over the validity of the evidence is basing his opinions on. To be honest, I can't say that I know who's right because I'd have to get a third opinion or read the studies myself... which would just lead to confusion, what with all the medical terms... and me not reading Chinese...).
I have also been a perpetrator of this when I got angry at a friend based on an e-mail. After much back and forth, we realized that we were misreading each other's tone - things meant in jest were taken seriously, things meant to be presented in a straightford way were taken as being snide, etc.
So, I guess I would just like to urge everyone reading
any post that gets a strong reaction to stop and reread it in as neutral tone as possible. Are you attributing a certain emotional tone to the writer of the post? If so, are you certain that was the tone intended? Really, I think this whole issue is why emoticons were invented... so there could be a pciture of what tone was meant. I mean, imagine the difference if I ended the above paragraph re: Dr. Nase with a

as opposed to a

.
-Kat